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Response: Hi - just returned to swap bot, didn't see a message from you regarding friendship deco... But I had maybe a hundred messages a just deleted - it had been so long... The friendship deco swap was a while back - and if If I recall, the swap was cancelled... So, if I missed you - I'm not sure how. I responded (was rated 5's) to round #1 and round #3 - how could I have missed round #2? Too long ago to recall details - let me look around - and if you can provide details to me about exactly what I was supposed to send you, I will do my best to respond promptly :)
Honestly, I just can't remember the details / rules for this swap....