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Email Pen Pal Swap

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Email Pen Pal Swap
Swap Coordinator:Cyndir (contact)
Swap categories: Letters & Writing  Newbie  Email 
Number of people in swap:35
Location:International
Type:None
Last day to signup/drop:December 18, 2008
Date items must be sent by:December 31, 2008
Number of swap partners:2
Description:

Like many others here on swap-bot I love writing and receiving long and chatty letters. But sometimes I can get a little discouraged, especially when I’ve put in some extra effort to make that letter look nice and cute, maybe used some pretty new stationary I recently bought, decorated the letter in stickers, added a little extra something in the envelope, etc, and then I never hear back! I know not everyone I write to is going to instantly “click” with me. Maybe I’m not the type of friend they were looking for. Maybe we don’t have the same likes/dislikes, or maybe we have completely different opinions on some touchy subjects. Whatever the reason, in the end I’m never really sure why I didn’t receive a letter back and usually end up incredibly disappointed.

This is a swap for people who have had similar experiences, or are wary of having a similar experience, but would still like to look for a long term pen pal.

You will have two partners who you will email each of them one letter. In those letters don’t forget to tell them about yourself, your family, your likes/dislikes, maybe something about what you do for work/school. The body of the letter is entirely up to you; just make sure it’s nice and chatty. Once your email has been sent out and you have received a reply, if you feel that you have clicked, don’t hesitate to start snail mailing instead!

If you chose to sign up for this swap you not only promise to email your partners, but to reply back to the ones that have emailed you with their letters. If you are interested in continuing a long term friendship, then the means by which you communicate is entirely up to you. If you decide that maybe you guys just don’t have enough in common, just reply back, letting your partner know you received the letter. Maybe the age difference between the two of you is just too great and you don’t feel like you have enough in common. Maybe you have different religious views, or you don’t really want to pen pal with someone outside of your home country. Whatever the reason, by signing up for this swap you at least promise to reply back, thanking them for their letter.

This swap is open to everyone- old swappers, new swappers, and the in-between swappers. This is a simple swap, no more than 20 minutes of your time, with no money involved, so I will not be banning anyone based on set criteria. However, if I feel you may have difficulties in sending, I will pm you and discuss my worries and we will take it from there.

Please have fun with your letters, and I hope everyone who joins gets to make a new friend!

I looked through previous and current swaps, but didn't find anything similar to this. If I have unknowingly "stolen" this swap idea from you, please let know so that I can properly credit the idea. Thanks!

Discussion

zanylady 12/ 9/2008 #

Yes, it is always disappointed not to receive an answer to a letter, even it is a "please let's not exchange letters." I am continually naive in thinking that everyone would be courteous.

Personally I think the differences are what makes life interesting. I love communicating with people of all ages, all persuasions and all opinions. Celebrate diversity!

Cyndir 12/ 9/2008 #

I agree @zanylady I love communicating with people who have different opinions, different likes/dislikes, different backgrounds.. Unfortunately they don't always agree and I'm just left wondering if maybe their letter got lost in the mail or something :-(.

zanylady 12/ 9/2008 #

Ah, letters do get lost. After I have exchanged a number of times and then there is this long silence, I send a postcard. I was able to happily re-connect with a UK and and Italian pen pal because letters were lost. It does help to check.

Susi 12/10/2008 #

I would love to penpal, but sometimes I get behind in answering, but... it doesn't mean that I don't want to write, or have forgotten the penpal, I just get behind. I've made some good friends here, to the point that we even call each other on the phone! (now that's the type of palling I'm good at, I can talk someone's ear off! Anyway, I'll put this swap on watch, and think about it some.

Cyndir 12/10/2008 #

I know what you mean, @Susi Sometimes life just happens and you forget. But this way, if something comes up, and you do find someone who you "click" with you can always just send them a quick email letting them know that something's come up and you will snail mail them when you get a chance. That way they're not left wondering :-)

swapwoman35 12/12/2008 #

i agree with susi i had 4 penpals that has not wrote to me in 3 months now and i am not happy with them anymore. but i have 2 penpals that writes me every day and sometimes if something comes up they email me and tell me that my letter is going to be late and i said thats fine with me.

mutantpenguin 12/15/2008 #

Well I hear what you're saying and I know what you mean. I'm hoping if someone gets my email and isn't interested they'd at least say, "thanks for the email. I think we wouldn't mesh" or something polite. I promise to do the same. I don't join pen pal swaps for regular letters because writing is hard for me sometimes (arthritis is so not fun) but I love email and I can usually find a few minutes to spare once a week or more often to send off something. So I'm going to give this a try and hope if you get me as a partner we'll find each other interesting!

MonkeysInk 12/19/2008 #

My emails just went out - looking forward to receiving ones from my partners. :)

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